#girly advice

what does it mean if he asks me if his mum would like something?

do you think exploring those negative feelings could help? :)

what exactly are those negative emotions, jealousy, anger, sadness, resentment, etc.? who are you jealous of, your friend or their partner in your friend group? why? jealous of what exactly: the time they spend together, the attention, etc. ? do you feel like you’re being “robbed” of one of the two? does their relationship have any influence over your life, who you spend your time with?

i’m just saying what comes at the top of my head - just remember that your feelings aren’t wrong. you’re not a horrible person for feeling jealous. or feelings usually have a cause or a reason and can tell us a lot about our wants, needs, boundaries, etc.. whatever you’re feeling is VALID, it’s OKAY and you don’t need to shame yourself for it. you’re not a horrible person for feeling jealous. <3

also thank you so much angel, this is so kind and i hope you’re doing okay !! <3

Where does one go for a first date?!

I haven’t been on a date since i was like 13/14 and that was with a girl now I’m going on one with a boy… is there like a big difference between going out with a girl to a boy?

Aghhhhh very annoying PLUS ILL HAVE TO TELL MY PARENTS IM GOING ON A DATE super embarrassing, like obviously nothing wrong with that like he’s a friend of a friend also I’ve already met him like once but still actually admitting I might like people gross

sound advice

Confidence is key ❤️

Be happy. Don’t spect a shit from anyone. 

If you are feeling down, take a shower, put on some makeup, take cute selfies. It helps

Boy advice please? Message meee!

Running in the Rain by Hinder has always been one of those songs that stuck with me and helped me pull through many-a-time. I re-discovered it today.

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I’ve played barefoot in the driveway in cut-offs in the pouring rain to this song because what was inside the house was too scary to face.

I’ve skated and skated and skated until I couldn’t breathe to this song to soothe anger.

I’ve cried my eyes out to it in the middle of the night to this song to help me move on.

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Anyway, it’s pretty versatile. Hold on to it; I promise it’ll prove useful.

Best way I found to get better at walking in heels was to tidy my room while wearing them. It’s great fun, you should try it some time!

I have been wearing nothing but a tinted moisturizer since last Fall. Instead of a “foundation,” I mean. I initially just got the tinted moisturizer for our New Zealand trip, but ended up being quite happy with it and just kept using it.

I’ve just run out (it lasted a LONG TIME! DAAANG!) and am looking to you for suggestions. I could probably use a bit more coverage than it offered, but I don’t want anything cakey, heavy or oily. I want something still healthy for my skin. Do any of you have a lightweight foundation you’d recommend?  And comes in ULTRA-PALE. (As I just tried a sample of Garnier’s new BB cream and their lightest was too dark for me. #palegirlproblems)

And PREFERABLY something that doesn’t cost more than $25-$30 a bottle.

Suggestions?

Yeah, You the girl sitting there reading this. Is there something on your body that you would change if you could? STOP! Don’t even bother thinking about it. You are strong, you are beautiful, You are important & someone will see these qualities, and many more, and fall deeply in love with you. Don’t live up don’t lose hope. Just stay optimistic & be proud of your body! :)