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If I had unlimited money, what would I buy? (Aside from things like donating to charity and other assistance related things)

💰DVDS! For Brooklyn 99, Big Bang Theory, Pokémon Anime (I have up until the first Black & White DVD set, everything before it I have already), The Simpsons, My Name Is Earl, etc.

💰Fandom Merchandise! First, a plushie of: Shadow the Hedgehog, Knuckles the Echidna, Sonic the Werehog, Tails, Julie-Su the Echidna (I don’t care if nobody is really making a plushie of her, I WANT IT! I also already have Sonic and Amy Rose) a Nicole the Holo-Lynx themed Chromebook, a Bunnie + Antoine action figure set, a Sonic Underground themed pillowcase (Meaning a picture with Sonia, Sonic and Manic on it) and a Future Freedom Fighter themed blanket (With every member on it! And coloured rainbow)

💰Video Game Stuff! Pokopia, a new 3DS, various in-game player costumes for SoS: FoMT (They have quite a few) and a new phone with more storage to play mobile games like Pokémon Masters EX + TCGP (I don’t have enough space for them on my phone anymore but they’re safe on my iPad)

💰Manga! Specifically the Pokémon Adventures manga on the Book app

💰Treats! Oreos, Cheetos, mars bars, sushi, Chinese food (From 4 Seasons), soft serve vanilla ice cream, shrimp linguine (From Red Lobster), gingerbread cookies, McDonald’s fries, Wendy’s burgers, etc. (Tooootally didn’t get hungry making this list, lol)

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These are my true feelings, NOT a “BRAG”

While I do notice a person’s physical appearance and I do have preferences in that regard (I tend to like bigger women for example), it’s literally the last thing I think about when it comes to romantic relationships. Nobody is “Ugly” in my personal opinion and, honestly, I’m more focused on mutual interests + personality than “Looks”. This sometimes comes out wrong (A person says “Am I unattractive?”, I say “I don’t think that’s important” or whatever. It’s an awkward situation). Specific people have said that individuals like me (Meaning under the asexual umbrella) just don’t understand how “Vital” appearance is to those who DO have s3x! Let’s take a moment to reflect on this small statement:

❤️Not all asexuals swear off s3xual relations/activities

❤️”Looks”, particularly based on youth, don’t last forever. Just think about it, if you were considering a long-term relationship and dated/married only for a younger appearance, you’d be screwed! (It wouldn’t be fair for anyone, but you’re probably well aware I can’t stop you… As long as everybody is old enough + has the ability to consent)

❤️I do feel physical attraction myself, however, it’s not a priority. The most romantic love I think I’ve ever felt was with people who I talked about my special interests with! Just yappin’ almost nonstop! (Maybe it seems different to you but I’m allowed to have a unique feeling of attraction)

Thanks for reading! (Respectful questions welcome!)

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Okay, lots of people say video games are not good for anyone, they “Ruin your life/brain/mood”. But let’s put aside the fact that certain games can actually keep your brain healthy in different ways (Depending on how it works strategy wise, Pokémon is a supposedly researched example). I’d say the biggest benefits of gaming are:

🏆The social aspect (Even occasionally). Joining communities with similar game interests is a great way to make friends (I wouldn’t have known many people in my life if I didn’t like video games)

🏆The much needed escape from whatever. While yes, a book or television show could do the same for certain people, games can’t be counted out! Whenever I play, I feel more relaxed and confident (I love sharing stories from my games with others)

🏆The creative outlet (For both official content and fan-made content). Lots of individuals enjoy making video game ideas, either for an already existing game or a completely new concept! (Me included). The people who actually create the ideas for games are incredible to me, no doubt!

Overall I play Pokémon and Harvest Moon/Story of Seasons regularly but I enjoy Sonic stuff despite not being physically able to play most of their games (Motor skill issues). I love all 3 big fandoms and their awesome communities! So before you look down on games and their players, remember to be kind and realize that some people met others, felt better and challenged themselves through gaming!🩷-An autistic game lover!

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Okay, huge confession (At least for me). I am a lesbian, I only feel attracted to women and sometimes nonbinary people. That’s not the confession though (At least not the main one, lol). The only man I’ve always loved romantically is N from Pokémon! In real life, I don’t like dating men but N gets me all excited, squealing and smiling. I can’t get enough of him (Either canon content or fan creation). I would probably date him if it were possible! I love him in the main games, the Adventures manga, Masters EX, etc. I know I’m not alone in liking N but I had to get this out anyway! He’s my favourite Pokémon character, he’s my iPhone wallpaper, I have a photo album of N pictures on my devices, I have lots of posters of him and I just feel so close to him despite him not being real. Lots of people point out that he’s quite relatable for autistic fans (I couldn’t disagree because I love him and I’m autistic). Very possibly being intended to actually be autistic himself. N is so interesting and I really had fun talking to him in Masters EX (Even though he did most of the talking, I’m not complaining!). Total N fan here!

Screw it, I’m posting this!🩷Enjoy!

One of my new dresses (That I sometimes share with my Mum)🩷

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Okay, it’s really easy to just say “If people in your life don’t accept who you are, there not worth having in your life!” however, this isn’t simple at all for certain situations, including if you’re dependent on people due to a disability. I’m an autistic adult woman and I can’t live alone (This likely won’t change ever). I need support emotionally (I have bad thought spirals that get worse when I’m alone, I need help breaking through them) and for basic tasks (Money management, cooking, cleaning, driving to places, etc.). If people don’t accept me, I’m very vulnerable to being abused because I’m known as a “People pleaser” (Usually a person who has trouble saying no and bases their worth on how others view them). If all people decide one day I’m not worth their time? I’d be screwed! A big fear I have is that exact situation! My family tells me not to worry because they have plenty of individuals in place to protect/care for me if something happens to them. I try my best to be a voice for other people who need support, there are many people like me who require help and caregivers in their lives! Autism doesn’t go away after 18! IQ doesn’t equal support need levels! Nobody should have to go through this alone! ESPECIALLY if they need help with daily activities! Give autistic people compassion and respect because every single one of us came into this world with our entire existence on a “Hard mode” setting. Sure, individuals are affected differently but autism is a disability! We’re not going to be ignored! The biggest regrets of my life was not speaking up about how I felt because now I found out many other autistic people felt similarly! We’re not all the same but we all have our struggles and emotions regardless of if we can speak or not, if we went to a regular school or not, if we can advocate ourselves or not!

🥑In conclusion: Some autistic people are potentially quite vulnerable if they need supports from others (It’s something we should all consider), speaking up for ourselves is important as heck and all autistic people have the right to be existing in this world (Not everyone can speak for themselves but we’re all worthy of the supports we need!)

New dress!🤍🤍🤍

I love my cute, big, soft body (And nobody is going to change that😘🫶)

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Okay, so Pokémon is my biggest special interest in terms of its longevity and intensity! However, there have been some smaller special interests that I’ve obsessed over (Again, not as much as Pokémon but I thought I’d make a list of ones that come and go every so often):

🐅Scooby Doo (I’m currently watching the live action movies again along with the Mystery Incorporated show from 2010, my favourite character is Velma)

🐅Wicked (Probably my newest addition to this list, I loved the broadway musical and the first movie. I’m trying to get a Wicked themed bedroom design, with lots of pink and green! My favourite character is Elphaba)

🐅Harvest Moon (I’ve played a few of their games including A New Beginning, Trio of Towns, The Tale of Two Towns, Pioneers of Olive Town and Story of Seasons. My favourite character is Neil from ANB)

🐅SpongeBob (This is my go to, sad mood show. I always put it on when I’m feeling down, it’s usually also on when I can’t decide what to watch because it’s a safe bet. My favourite character is Sandy)

🐅The Simpsons (This brings back memories of hanging out with my Dad, I quote the lines a lot when I’m being goofy. My favourite character is Lisa)

If you have any questions, just ask😁

Thank you. I really appreciate support and kind words. We always need them so, I hope you have a wonderful day💖

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I, Maggie, have no right to say:

🍐”You shouldn’t be allowed wear that outfit” (Including men in dresses, women in suits, etc. People of any gender identity should be able to wear what they feel comfortable in)

🍐”Trans/nonbinary people shouldn’t exist” (They sure as hell exist and I couldn’t be more proud, exploring your true gender identity is amazing and nobody should feel like less of a person for it)

🍐”Asexuals just haven’t found the right partner yet” (Sex isn’t something everyone wants or needs, they are not broken, asexual is a valid identity. No person should be pressured to have sex if they don’t want to)

🍐”Disabled people shouldn’t have anything because they don’t contribute” (Most disabled folks do contribute to society in many ways and even if they didn’t, they’re human beings capable of making others happy, they’re so loved! In most cases their different views on life or everyday things is needed)

🍐”Indigenous people should get over their pasts” (What happened to them was downright cruel, imagine if you were taken from your family and home to inevitably be talked down to by strangers who think they’re doing you a favour by stripping away who you are. Imagine that uncomfortable uncertainty and fear…)

🍐”Women belong at home, they shouldn’t make decisions in the real world” (It blows my mind that a lot of men, who were probably raised by women, have almost no respect for them. Also, women can be smart, strong and be a great force in the workplace. Don’t tell anyone they shouldn’t try for their dream career, you never know…)

🍐”Mental health isn’t as important as physical health” (A lot of mental illnesses can actually affect things like pain, body stress, blood pressure, energy levels, etc. And what’s the point of being alive anyway if you’re constantly emotionally miserable with no way to get better? That’s what so many people think when they have anxiety, depression, eating disorders, etc. we need to help those people, time to stop the silence!)

🍐”Fat people don’t take proper care of themselves, they’re lazy” (Lots of medical conditions can lead to weight gain, plus, a person’s weight isn’t the most important indicator of health, they could very well be exercising and eating their vegetables! They also could be over exercising and have under eating habits, you never know. The important thing is to not judge them, make them feel valued and safe. They’re trying just as hard to be healthy as you are, bodies are different)

I never said any of these things, I never intend to and I suggest you do the same💖Be kind! (Part 2 will come later)