#dv

Being chronically ill and having a shot nervous system post-dv is so shit because I want so much out of life and I dream so big but have to face my limitations on a daily basis and it’s fucking bleak

sometimes you meet someone and you just immediately clock yeah you never had to wear shoes inside to avoid stepping on broken glass or ceramics. like good for you but do you realize how lucky you are.

10.03.26_21:47

Missing what was comfortable,

For so long,

And was so bad

For my mental health

And well-being,

Some have helped me see,

The way to a better

Me.

I may miss the misery,

The false hope of acceptance

For a lost and lonely

Child,

But I’m never going back.

It’s butter yellow and baby blue

All of the things I thought of you

A condemned house with floral pink wall paper

An addiction I had to taper

Leave once, leave a billion times

I loved you for your sweetness, tried hard to against your crimes

I’m honoring myself, even when the Bible says honor thy mother

The man I once loved started to look a lot like my older brother

A dark figure over the crib or an ache in the rib

It all felt the same to me

Confusing, sour, and like blasphemy

I bled, I bled, I bled

And so once again I ran from where I had been

Not to my grave and not to a hospital bed

I didn’t stay to fight and I didn’t stay to win

I fled

The Housemaid: An Expertly Written Commentary On Domestic Violence

The Housemaid: An Expertly Written Commentary On Domestic Violence

After nearly 15 years in the frontline of support for vulnerable people in this city I have never felt as hopeless as today.

Current job is signposting, not advocacy so I couldn’t step in in the way I wanted to.

I spoke to someone today who was facing eviction, had mental health struggles, needed to claim PIP, was a DV survivor and had built a tolerance to OTC codiene.

I know the referral routes for all the support, I’ve sat in GP appointments and quoted NICE guidelines for all of this.

And I’m not allowed to. I have to push them at other agencies with a 6 month waiting list who don’t talk to each other

omg now i really wish dv eoa was real. FAWWWWKKKKKK ITD BE SO CUUUUUUTE. also i shouldve said but one of elenas decals would be the amulet of avalor of course. Unless they added sofia to the game too ☝️ in which case i do think it would be hers instead because elena never wants to see that thing again.

DV also has these friendship rewards where level 4 is 500 coins and level 7 is 1k coins and the rest are prizes related to their character and usually for the princesses that means a dress similar to theirs for the final prize! so elenas level 10 prize would be a dress similar to hers i think and then i think other cosmetic rewards would be her hair flowers & a hip lasso accessory. and then a furniture prize of her guitar and scepter like leaned up against a wall… and then the decal prizes would be little pictures of jaquins and the avaloran crest. SO CUUUUUTE.

Estebans i think his first prize would be like elsas which is to say his stupid haircut. because of the to queen or not to queen episode where he forces everyone to get his haircut. and then i think he would have a throne furniture prize and a carnaval crown cosmetic prize too.. and then maybe like a big luxurious canopy bed or a little fountain or that horrible houseplant from the ep where mateos mom moves in LOLOL. i would want his chancellors sash but i feel like thats more likely as a general cosmetic than a friendship prize. then his decal prizes could be probably sweets related… like how disney makes those concha ears irl i could see that being added for him because he does love his treats so much. and itd be very cute and incentivize non-fans to level up his friendship LOL.

If esteban and elena were in dreamlight valley i think elena would also be a castle character bc thats just the easiest way for new characters to be added + THEN U COULD GO TO AVAALORRRRRR BRO….. Itd be so cute. I think Elena would sing a lot similar to how mirabel has the idle voiceline of humming…🩵 Lala. Her quest would probably be zuzo related for funnies plus they wouldnt have to put him in the game because only she can see him. unless they wanted to because the pc is also imbued with magic… EITHER WAY VERY CUTE . And her house would be a little mini castle with a corner for her guitars ouughhh and a painting of the family on the wall AUHHHHGGHHHHHH.

Esteban would probably be similar to how maui’s recruitment quest worked with moana’s which is to say hes also in the avalor world but hes kind of hanging around being sassy about elenas latest shenanigans and poking fun at you for indulging her only to get jealous and lonely when she goes to dreamlight valley with u. so he would be like I need to go too to keep an eye on Elena but you have to make sure its nice and safe and comfortable for me… which probably involves talking to ursula because i think he would like her. and then his house would be similar to elenas obviously but i think with a slightly darker aesthetic and then decorations of himself all over the interior like his canon bedroom. LOLOL. Oh my god. So cute

started playing dreamlight valley again todayyyy. i had stopped because it was too fun and i was scared id have too much fun (???? Nonsense) BUT OMGGG. I love it so much. My mindless level up game. I love leveling up and being friends with moana. Im on track to hopefully get anna soon enough 😢. SHE IS SO LATE GAME FOR NOOOOO REASOOOONNNN . Ive stranded kristoff on an island because im mad that he is here and she isnt. But i do need to befriend him to get her im fairly sure.

男に圧倒的力の差で屈服させられている時、女は1番萌える

女がDV男から抜け出せない理由がコレ。

女は種の本能として格上の男に守られたい生き物である。

美女になればなるほど強い男に惚れたり、モラハラ男に捕まっていたりするのもこれが原因。

モテたいならDVしろ

というわけではないが、

我々は男として生まれた以上、圧倒的な力を身につけないといけないんだよな。

ALT

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are the straights ok? no. the answer is definitely no.

“If you can’t give me an explanation for ____, I’m punching you in the face I swear”

…

Wow. Ok. (When did I allow myself to be used to this?)

I’ve been asked what caused my functional neurological disorder (FND). The truth is it’s connected to domestic violence. While I have a sensitive nervous system from a brain injury, my FND came from abuse - which is textbook FND.

I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for almost five years. The tipping point was when he sexually assaulted me. My nervous system was in constant fight-or-flight mode for years, and eventually it crashed. Interestingly, this happened while I was in a safe environment with a supportive (new) partner - but apparently that’s normal.

I did a lot of therapy after leaving the relationship and I think that’s why my recovery is going well. It was for sure one of those situations you don’t realize how bad it was until you’re removed. I became a shell of a person from the abuse. Regardless, some days I can walk to the mailbox and my speech is improving. My seizures are less aggressive as well.

I think most people know how shy I am, but I’m sharing this to raise awareness about the long-term impact of domestic violence and to show that recovery is possible.

Maybe she shouldn’t have brought up how he doesn’t see (or contribute) to his children.  But she hates it.  She hates that he never sees them, that he refuses to pay child support, that he told the mother not to even bother putting him on it because most of his work is under the table anyway.  It goes against everything she stands for….
And any time she brings up the fact that he’s not even trying, he loses it.

-The DV Diaries

Never too late. Your self love must always come first.

Domestic violence is something that is not taken seriously enough. I usually try to avoid heavy topics on this account but this is something I need young girls to hear. Waiting to be with the right person won’t kill you, being strict with boundaries, and being picky will not kill you. However choosing the wrong partner or staying with someone who mistreats you will. At the first sign of aggression or a lack of emotional control or at any sign of emotional manipulation walk away. It is easier to walk away the first time or at the beginning because you are usually less attached to the person. I don’t care if you are heartbroken for a while it better to grieve a relationship than have your love grieve you. If you find yourself into deep there are resource available all over the country. There are people out there whose life goal is to help women escape. Understand you are not alone and there are always going to be people you care and lastly prayers for Rickea Jackson.

praying for everyone who works today with the violent drunk messes you have to deal with (esp hs kids)

also praying for the DV victims today. superbowl sunday makes DV rates skyrocket..