What is a core memory from your childhood that shaped who you are today?
One core memory that shaped who I am today happened when I was 17 years old and my grandfather was diagnosed with colon cancer. During the beginning of my senior year of high school, I helped my grandmother care for him. My sister and I would walk four miles to my grandmother’s house so we could help my grandfather get up the stairs, get into bed, and spend as much time with him as possible.
During that time, I realized that I wanted my life to be centered around helping people. My grandfather was a pastor, and throughout my life I watched how he helped anyone he encountered, no questions asked. His compassion and willingness to serve others left a lasting impression on me and helped shape the woman I am today.
Who has been the most influential woman in your life, and what did you learn from her?
The most influential woman in my life was my mother. She always taught me to stand up for what I believe in, no matter how many people tried to discourage me. She reminded me to move with integrity and to never change who I am just to please others.
My mother was a very intelligent and strong woman, and she often reminded me that sometimes I may have to stand alone but that it’s okay because God is always with me. Those lessons continue to guide me in both my personal life and my work today.
What does it mean to you to be a good leader?
To me, a good leader is someone who leads by example and never compromises their team just to look good. Strong leaders understand that they are only as strong as the people around them.
A good leader also takes the time to listen and consider different perspectives before making decisions. Leadership is not about being in front; it’s about supporting your team, uplifting others, and creating an environment where everyone has the opportunity to grow and succeed.
What is one thing you would never ask anyone on your team to do that you haven’t or wouldn’t do yourself?
I would never ask anyone on my team to do something deceitful, dishonest, or illegal. Integrity is essential in leadership; leaders should always model the values and standards they expect from others.
What lessons do you believe women are especially poised to teach us?
Women are incredibly resilient and possess a deep sense of empathy for the people and communities they care about. Women often teach us the importance of love, compassion, and perseverance in the face of challenges.
Whether in their homes, workplaces, or communities, women consistently demonstrate how to overcome obstacles while continuing to support others. Their ability to bring people together and create environments where others can thrive is a powerful example of strength and leadership.
When you think about Women’s History Month, what story, voice, or achievement do you feel should be amplified more?
I believe the stories of women who have overcome barriers while leading in their communities, workplaces, schools, and families should be amplified more. Women often carry tremendous responsibility while continuing to show resilience, strength, and leadership.
The everyday contributions women make often quietly and without recognition deserve acknowledgment and celebration.
Closing Reflection
My life experiences have taught me that service, compassion, and integrity can shape not only who we become but also the impact we have on others. Those lessons continue to guide me in my work as a social worker and advocate supporting families impacted by incarceration.
Through my work, I strive to uplift voices that are too often unheard and to help create pathways for healing, opportunity, and justice for families navigating difficult circumstances.
Being honored during Women’s History Month reminds me that the strength and resilience of the women who came before me continues to guide the work I do today.
I hope the work I do continues to honor the legacy of the women who taught me to lead with compassion, courage, and faith.
Thank you again for this recognition.
