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Poor & Cheap

💭 Can a life be both poor and cheap?

Yes absolutely — but the two words sit in different emotional registers, so when they collide, they say something sharp about how a society values (or fails to value) someone.

🟦 “Poor”

This is about material conditions:

• limited resources
• limited opportunities
• structural disadvantage
• scarcity shaping daily choices

It describes circumstance, not worth.

🟥 “Cheap”

This is about how others treat that life:

• disposable
• unprotected
• undervalued
• easily sacrificed or ignored

It’s a judgment made by a system, not an inherent quality of the person.

A League For Champions

To save you the embarrassment of getting caught picking locks and thieving learn to accept your place within community and be happy to live out your days knowing that you didn’t ever have to send a family line to their death. Yes, your life may be cheap and poor but you’re clean as a whistle in that regard.

The Champions League games this evening, on the other hand, are very expensive. A losing team will leave the competition with 11 million Euros. Whilst a winner will go on to play a quarter final match with a 12.5 million Euro prize. That’s a difference of 1.5 million Euros between a winner and a loser of the Champions League games this evening. 90 minutes. Kicking a ball. On a field of grass.

Let us not tarnish our minds with the broadcasting rights figures.

As an aside: viewership numbers for Champions League in the India sub-continent did increase to 125M in 2024. That’s an increase of 50% since 2020.

Hooray for Bollywood (or should that be Sony)🎊👍😊

Energy Spike - March 19th, 2026

Energy Spike – March 19th, 2026

We have 2 energy spikes in the month of March.  The first happened on the 3rd and this one is on the 19th of the month.

Energy Spikes come when there is a large concentration of energy patterns and multiple patterns active at once.  Consider them similar to earthquakes.  They need to register a 5 or more to be something to be concerned about; even though we can feel the impact of smaller ones.  Even one or two Earthquakes in the world at a time will not affect the collective too much, even if it impacts their own area.  However, if you had 5 or more of them in one region or happening all on the same day that were over a 5.0 magnitude; that would definitely have a much more noticeable impact on people around the world.  Energy Spikes are often the same; which is why many people tend to notice those days more.  Of course, how each person handles them and their personal alignment with the active patterns can influence how they experience things.

This one does give us quite a bit of favorable energy to work with.  This spike encourages us to play, have fun, be spontaneous (but not impulsive), and to connect with creative energy.  It encourages us to have interactions with others and to get out and see what others are doing.  We can find inspiration for what we are working on.  It calls us to be who we are, and to stop trying to impress others.  We can be ourselves, and leave favorable impressions.  At this time, people want to learn more about who we are.

Finding real and true love is favored at this time, but we must use caution.  Attractions can feel like they are soulful; but may be nothing more than physical chemistry.  It is as easy to draw in someone that has ulterior motives and no commitment as it is a true love.  Real love, often doesn’t come with a bunch of fireworks; it may even have no relationship type attraction at all.  This is because we need to focus on qualities that a person has, and we need to take the time to get to know their style and interests.  Many chemistry-based attractions have no real commitment, but just want to feel the exciting chemistry with someone; and when it wears off, there is nothing left to connect through, and it always wears off unless there is something deeper to the connection.

This is a time where we want to focus on giving and receiving unconditional love; and if someone is giving that to us, we want to honor and appreciate this connection.  This can be a powerful time to get married or renew vows.  For those who are single, and prefer to remain that way; then this is about being in unconditional love with people and the world at large.  You may be the ones, that are in a point of life where you are impacting and inspiring others.  A little kindness and compassion can create major turning points, hope, inspiration, and even save lives.  It will always leave others with something positive to remember you by.  To do this, it is important that you are cultivating your own peace within.  Cultivating peace within us, is also critical to having strong and healthy relationships; and this is a great day to spend time doing that.

We are also favored for working with others and being part of a team, as long as there are no hierarchical structures.  We are called to see the skills, value, and worth of others, and also the value and worth of creating positive experiences.  It is not so much the task itself or the end result that is remembered, but the process and the experiences that we had in creating the end result.  Focusing on fellowship and positive interactions, will naturally create strong successes.  This is about learning to integrate with others, learning from them, and learning more about them as a person.

There are strong aspects of the past resurfacing.  The past can be a tool, but we may have some unresolved things that need to be worked through before moving forward.  People and things that trigger us or try to get us to react and battle with them, are only a catalyst for showing us what is important to us and unresolved within us.  They are helping us to see the pain that we are still holding onto, which comes where we have dealt with bullying, abuse, or things being unfair or cruel.  When this is left unresolved, then we become more sensitive and reactive when it surfaces in people and situations around us.  We create hardships when we attack the catalyst (aka messenger), even if they are doing unfavorable things.  The key is to find legal and ethical ways to heal the pain.  The catalyst may be giving us the opportunity to do that in our current situation, or we may want to make peace with the past and release the emotions around the pain we are holding onto.  Once we have done that, we may be able to give ourselves a second chance at something that can be favorable.

Old loves or friends may also resurface, looking for a second chance.  We must carefully consider where they are at, where we are at, what changes have happened, and what direction we want to go in.  We need to think carefully about our choices with people and opportunities in our life.  It should not just be exciting now, but should be something that has real strength and stability many years from now, when the glitter fades and the challenges arise.  Do we and others have the strength to face those challenges or will we or they give up when the going gets tough?  Consider choosing things that have a timeless nature to them.  These things will work regardless of what the conditions are.  They are often rooted in qualities, more than possessions and lifestyle.  This come from experiences, that leave us with beautiful memories to reflect on.

A lot of what we are working with in this spike, is about getting us to see what holds true value in life; and what robs us of beautiful experiences, such as focusing on status, money, and work as the top priority.  We are being called to appreciate the simple things in life, to slow down and connect with daily life on a more intimate level, and to honor nature and natural rhythms and processes.  While adventures are exciting, we want to see the beauty and gifts of what we have right in our own home, area, and daily life.  The key is to have both; points of excitement and adventure, and simple ordinary days.  Just like a strong partnership, there must be some romance and exploration, but we need to love and appreciate the daily routines just as much.  One brings life into things, and the other provides needed stability and reliability to it.  The key is to learn to have fun with the most mundane things, and to put new twists into regular things.  We want to honor traditions, and create new ones.  This is a great time to deepen the connection with have with people and nature, and to realize some of our greatest joys are found in the simple things that give us peace.

True story:

There were two young women missionaries who were captured by an army of 121 men. These men trapped the women in a house, and all of them repeatedly raped them for about 25 days straight. Yet these women were so sold out for Jesus that, as the men were raping them, they were praying over them—and every one of those soldiers got born again.

Many believers in America can’t fathom this because we’re so consumed by hatred.

But what does love look like?!

Denying yourself, carrying your cross, and following Jesus.

Daily Insights 3-17-2026

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As we grow and develop our Spiritual Path consciously, we will have points where we are tested on our commitment to this path and God/Divine Source. It often comes through temptations that try to pull us off of that past. However, these can be great opportunities to reaffirm our commitment to the path. When we are fully committed to nourishing Divine Presence and implementing it in our lives; we cannot be tempted by things that are not real and are not connected to God/Divine Source. We often will find that we are tested many times even on the same thing, to see if we are consistently in our strength or if there are still points of influence or openings that can be used to pull us away. The stronger we are, the easier it is to make healthier choices, and they become what we desire. There is no conflict or temptation to take something else. Tests often increase stress, and stress is often when we cave into temptations. However, if we reframe the test into an opportunity to show strength and commitment to supporting Divine Presence, we will find that with consistency over time the temptations cease to try to influence us. Today you will benefit from knowing what your stressors are and be ready to seize opportunities to make healthy choices when they surface. Most stress can be quickly shifted with healthy food, a good walk, connection with nature, or even some deep breathing.

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These People Need Our Help!

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These People Need Our Help!

Please donate or spread the word. Anything we can do to help them counts.

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These People Need Our Help!

Hunger in Yemen is unprecedented. Please donate or spread the word. Anything we can do to help them counts.

Silence can be deafening. In the world of finance, the term “tranche” might sound like something out of a fancy French menu, but it’s actually a way to slice up risk in investments. Imagine a cake, where each layer represents a different level of risk and reward. Investors can choose which layer—or tranche—they want to bite into, depending on their appetite for risk. But what happens when the cake is poisoned?

Enter the chilling effect. It’s like a cold wind that sweeps through a room, making everyone pull their coats tighter and speak in hushed tones. This phenomenon creates an environment where people feel that staying silent is safer than speaking up. It’s the rational calculation that, when faced with potential backlash or retribution, keeping quiet is the lesser of two evils.

We’ve seen this play out in recent news, where certain high-profile individuals exhibit narcissistic behavior—dismissing criticism, shifting blame, and manipulating narratives to maintain their image. This behavior can create a toxic atmosphere where those who might otherwise speak out feel intimidated or powerless. It’s like being in a room with a roaring lion; you don’t want to draw attention to yourself.

For those experiencing narcissistic abuse, this chilling effect can be paralyzing. You might feel like you’re walking on eggshells, constantly second-guessing yourself. Gaslighting—a tactic where the abuser makes you doubt your own reality—only adds to the confusion and fear. But here’s the thing: you’re not alone, and your experiences are valid.

If you find yourself in this situation, here are some steps you can take:

1. Document Everything: Keep a record of incidents, conversations, and any evidence of manipulation or abuse. This can be invaluable if you decide to take action later.

2. Seek Support: Reach out to trusted friends, family, or support groups. Sharing your experiences with others can provide validation and help you see things more clearly.

3. Set Boundaries: Establish clear limits on what behavior you will and won’t tolerate. This can help protect your mental and emotional well-being.

4. Consider Professional Help: A therapist or counselor can offer guidance and strategies for dealing with narcissistic behavior and its effects.

5. Know Your Rights: Educate yourself on your legal rights and options. Sometimes, just knowing what you can do is empowering.

Remember, the chilling effect thrives on silence. By taking these steps, you can begin to thaw the ice and reclaim your voice.

TL;DR: The chilling effect makes silence seem safer than seeking justice, especially in the face of narcissistic behavior. Document incidents, seek support, set boundaries, consider professional help, and know your rights to combat this silence.

So, here’s the thought-provoking question: What would it take for you to break the silence and seek justice? Your voice is powerful, and using it can help create a stronger, freer society where everyone feels secure. Let’s work together to melt the ice and let the warmth of truth shine through.

Stigma hurts families, not just the accused. Let’s choose empathy over judgment and support those silently suffering -Maya Butalid

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Maroon Mindset:

Finding me – survival to peace

He who fights and runs away, lives to fight another day. Maroon mindset is vital for my survival. 

The presence of my ancestors are always with me. Wherever I go, whatever I do. I feel their gentle steer!

I see their influence and intervention in so many different ways during my days and feel a deep sense of guidance and care.

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New Moon - March 19th, 2026

March 19th New Moon

The New Moon energy always magnifies our opportunities, and always favors what provides us with greater freedom, self-sufficiency, and possibilities.  The choices that we make during this time will impact all our existences.  As a result, it is important that we pay extra attention to what we choose and do.

This New Moon asks us to make peace with our past, and especially with past loves.  It is important, so we can move forward with what creates a favorable future.  If we are to receive love, then we must let go of the pain that we have been holding onto.  If we are to have successes, then we need to let go of our failures.  Their wisdom is always with us; but we should not carry them as burdens and hardships.  People and especially love relationships, come into our life to teach us what love is and is not; and to test us to see if we are as ready for a commitment as we think we are.  Most are ready for the good sides of love; but few are ready for the hardships.  Those who could not be faithful to us, showed us what love was not.  Some have showed us real love, but we may not have received it.  If past loves resurface, we must look at how we and they have changed; and if those changes are something we want to move forward with.  This is a great time to reflect on those who showed us compassion and unconditional love.  These are the people we want to model ourselves after; and who could find peace, regardless of what was happening.

What we say, do, feel, and think has a lasting impression on others.  If we hold love and compassion and allow others to be who they are, we leave a favorable imprint.  Even if it appears that it had no impact, it has.  We don’t always get to see the impact we have made; and simply need to know we have left others with kindness or taken a step to create peace.  Don’t underestimate the power of a positive deed done from sincere unconditional love.  It has changed my life and I have seen it change the lives of others.  It is not some grandiose gesture; but simply about caring and meeting a need in the moment.

Intuition is strong, and we receive symbolic messages, Angelic Guidance, and naturally feel a stronger connection to God/Divine Source.  This pleasant flow of energy, makes us lazy; so, we have to be careful not to procrastinate on things that need to get done.  It is best to do creative things or research things; but this is not a good time for things requiring a clear mind like important communications, making major decisions, signing contracts, or having medical procedures.  We want to be patient and forgiving where there are misunderstandings and miscommunications; and come back to things on a different day.

It is a great time to take it easy and appreciate what we take for granted.  We are favored for letting things flow naturally, and not forcing them.  We realize that excessive possessions and chasing status holds no real value; and it is a great time to let go of things, and experience life more.  Otherwise, we are just working for things that we have no time to enjoy; and literally enslave ourselves in patterns and things of no real value.  This time favors creating greater freedom and connecting with what is seasonal.  It is easier to see the inner workings and magnificence of simple things.

This New Moon is in Perigee or a Super Moon.  We don’t always notice this as much on a New Moon as we do on a Full Moon; but the energy is still very active and present.  We must be careful of rebellion energy and getting reactive if others are poking and aggravating us.  Provocations are deliberate, so we will react; and then that reaction is used to justify cruelty against us.  We must step back, take a deep breath, look at the facts and not just our perception, and decide what is appropriate and ethical action.  We want to stand up for ourselves; but do not want to battle with others or be influenced by them.

We want to look carefully at anywhere we feel rebellious or going into reactions.  It is less about the present situation, and more about past experiences that created trauma.  If we embrace this consciously, we can clear and release the pain we have been holding onto; and it is a time to clear karmic patterns, so that we stop bringing abusive situations and cruel people into our life.  This is a great time to heal the wounds of our past and move forward with a clean slate.  The experiences we have now, teach us about ourselves and what blocks our successes.  A true mentor is valuable; but there is likely to be an abundance of false prophets and gurus preying on us for personal gain.  A true mentor puts us first, if we are doing the work needed; gurus and false prophets do nothing without large sums of money and full compliance.

Peace is achievable; if we do the work.  It is important to meet obligations and responsibilities; and follow through on commitments.  We must not pick up the slack for those who are too lazy to do their work.  We want to balance productive days and work, with time in peaceful and calm settings.  This is part of re-establishing balance.  The work needs to get done and we want to embrace it willingly.  However, we need to balance it with loving energy and connecting with our Immortal Self and God/Divine Source.

We deal with lots of deception and manipulation.  It comes from ourselves and others; with self-deception being the trickiest to see.  People justify addictions and addictive patterns; pretending they are “no big deal”.  They deceive themselves about being pulled away from God/Divine Source; or doing things to be rebellious where they were not given what they wanted.  Unfortunately, this leads to unexpected upheaval and drama; a lot of it coming from those living in a variety of addictions.  Sexual addictions lead to affairs; unless the person has a commitment that is stronger than their urges.  Addictions and addictive patterns provide temporary pleasure; but do not bring peace.  Weather and storms surface to disrupt peace, or hit where people have pulled away from God/Divine Source.  They test of our faith and willingness to trust in God/Divine Source and are a form of initiation to see what we choose in hardships.

I welcome you to make peace with your past.  What if you need to let go of pain and failures to have love and success?

I welcome you to be caring and meet the needs of the moment.  What if this has the power to change a life; even if you don’t see the impact it has made?

I welcome you to embrace the pleasant flow of energy available through symbolic messages.  What if you can do this, and still handle what needs to get done?

I welcome you to appreciate what you take for granted.  What if this connects you with how magnificent they are?

I welcome you to see how rebellion and reactions connect to past trauma that has not been cleared.  What if this is a call to clear karmic patterns; so that you stop drawing in abusive and cruel people?

I welcome you to take time to be in peaceful and calm settings, after being productive and meeting your responsibilities and obligations.  What if this helps to balance you with loving energy?

I welcome you to stop justifying addictions and addictive patterns.  What if this pulls you away from God/Divine Source?

The Code Journey ~ 2026 Edition

The Grace Gift of Giving

9 For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that you by his poverty might become rich. 10 And in this matter I give my judgment: this benefits you, who a year ago started not only to do this work but also to desire to do it. 11 So now finish doing it as well, so that your readiness in desiring it may be matched by your…

The Grace Gift of Giving

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Love With Actions and Truth

Some days are heavy. Some feelings feel too big to handle. In my latest post, I share 5 go-to coping tools that help me ground myself, write it out, move my body, and speak to myself with compassion.

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Weekly Focus - Just Be and Do You

Weekly Focus – Just Be and Do You

Too often we spend our time trying to follow what others are doing and to conform to some image or persona in the world.  This is a time where we really just want to be who we are.  It is a time to embrace our own style and personality in the world; and be able to show that.  This is not about worrying if others approve of your style.  In fact, most want to get to know you.  They want to learn about your experiences in life and what has shaped and formed you.  They want to learn about your dreams, desires, visions.  When each of us honors being our own self, we will actually inspire each other in our own things.  Seeing how someone else is expressing something or doing things, can easily stimulate my own creative mind and give me ideas for my own work.

It is important that we don’t rush into things or act impulsively.  Spontaneity is great, as that is about seizing the moment for fun and enjoyment.  It is about engaging in life and taking advantage of an opportunity to do something or express ourselves in some way.  However, impulsiveness is rooted in persuasion.  It comes from doing something without thinking about it; and this often leaves us with the proverbial buyer’s remorse.  It is an action that is taken due to pressure from others, fear of missing out on something, and being persuaded by others with urgency.  It also can lead us to fall prey to attractions and connections based in chemistry.  We need to step away from these people and things and think about them before moving forward.  What seems like fun in the moment with these people, could become disappointment or heartbreak.

People and things from our past are likely to show up this week.  We want to be extra careful about those who we previously had strong physical attractions to.  We need to consider who we are now, who they are now, and does that actually hold long term potential.  We must know if there have been changes or if it is only a desire to revive the past.  The key is to be strongly focused on what is going to create a stable and favorable path forward.  We do not want to repeat poor choices, but we also don’t want to block ourselves from favorable opportunities.  Things we thought were lost may resurface at this time, or old memories may come to mind.

It can actually be valuable for us to remember the times in our past that we had fun, allowed ourselves to be playful, and could just be ourselves.  These are things that we may want to find ways to implement again.  Of course, some things that were okay as a child might not be okay as an adult; but many things are.  Consider singing or dancing around the house, getting excited about something, having a play day with a friend, building a sandcastle at the beach, or reviving traditions that you loved when you were younger.  I know there was always some aspect of embracing the season.  Even if your body cannot do some of the things it once did, consider a variation of it or adapt the idea to what you can do now.