
How many areas of your life can you “realistically” manage and work on?
It’s something that I have been mulling over for quite some time - years, in fact - and never really come to a conclusion with, because it fluctuates, right.
And up until now, I have felt it should all be separated in nice little boxes, that I could work on one at a time.
But dude… my life is whole, and not a collection of neat boxes with labels on, that says “relationships”, “work”, “hobbies”, “politics”, etc…. it’s all part of a whole…. me.
And in business, I have tried and tried and tried (and if you’ve followed me for a little bit, you’ve been a witness), to create those neat boxes, which again and again have lead to burnout, exhaustion, boredom, frustration, and all that not so delicious stuff.
As someone with a humongous culturally confused baggage, with a big dash of low self-worth, and multiple interests in all directions, it has taken quite some time to reach this point, where I give myself permission to just be.
AAAH! Yes!!
And visibly so. *huge sigh of relief*
(and just a quick description of the image - it’s a Greenlandic lamp, but made of clay - I’m burning dried hare poop and lichen - thank you @varnagl for sharing your knowledge and your materials with me - it’s soothing my soul! nuan! ❤️🙏)
Well - the goes on, and I move forward boldly - integrating all the steps I need to take - and move toward a life that feels better and better for every day that goes by.
So I’m simultaneously working on:
- my online business (this. Feel Good Rebel ✨)
- My artistic and creative endeavours - and blending it with…
- my cultural heritage and reclamation
- cooking - food stuffs - inspired by my brother @nukannguaqolsen who have practiced one cuisine at a time to learn the basics - great idea, thank you brother 🥰)
- home renovation - I have no idea what I’m doing XD but doing it anyway
- health - body movement and exercises to stay alright, and hopefully become a strong old person.
- community - figuring out my space in the local community
- relationships - figuring out how to unlearn my avoidant attachment style, and my insecurities to thrive together with other people
- music - figuring out how to be an awesome band-mate in @franciska_zea_band_page and take time to practice and co-create.
dude…. no wonder I’ve been stressed out and confused where to put my energy, when it wasn’t a part of a whole.
But it feels much more doable now, that I am not spending energy trying to keep it all separate. 🥰
Also - did you know that I work with visibility (the authentic kind, like what I am doing myself - honouring my own pace and temperament) - and you can learn my thoughts and tools to regulate as you get more visible online, if that’s what you want - go to my profile, and get the “Visibility Without Self Abandonment” mini course.
It feels so much better to be visible, when you feel good about it, and don’t pressure yourself.
and!!! I am back in office, yay!
I wish you a wonderful Sunday (or any day of the week, whenever you’re seeing this. and a huge thank you, for reading this far. <3
<3 Parnuuna






