Rama Duwaji
Drawing created by: The Writer
Does prioritizing your work make you aloof?
In the year 2026, New York welcomed a new mayor who caught the attention of many across the country. Before being the mayor’s wife, Rama Duwaji was and is a very accomplished artist. She’s worked with companies like Apple, Spotify, and CNN as stated on her website. Her art has themes of politics and her Syrian heritage. There are many reasons why Duwaji is called aloof because of how she presents herself, especially on social media. If you go to her Instagram most of her posts are somewhat impersonal. Most of the posts are of her artwork rather than her husband’s mayoral campaign. Some of her illustrations speak on political issues like inhumane ICE raids, the ongoing genocide in Palestine, the liberation of Syria, violence in Sudan, and feminist issues across the world.
Even though there aren’t many outright posts on Zohran Mandani’s mayoral campaign, she was extremely involved. The reason for Mandani’s trendy, and aesthetically pleasing campaign ads was because of Duwaji. In reality, Rama Duwaji is different from so many other politicians’ wives and that shouldn’t be seen as being aloof but rather celebrated and admired. People are a lot more used to politicians’ wives standing behind their husbands and doing some things like reading to small children. Duwaji is her own person; not an extension of her husband. She’s not the New York mayor’s aloof wife; she’s an artist who uses her art to speak from the voiceless.
In this new day and age of social media, people want to confer on others personal lives in order to escape on their own. People want others who they don’t personally know to share things online at a personal level. I will admit, a lot of the people that I follow online are because of how real, outspoken, and authentic they are. I enjoy watching the content of people like Vanilla Mace share parts of their lives online. Rama Duwaji does fall into this line of content but in a different way. She does share parts of her life like her heritage and her art but it’s not to the standards that people have become accustomed to.
Other than her art and “aloofness,” her fashion has also been a big conversation. Duwaji is a muslim-American with parents from Syria. She and her husband are also socialist. For Mandami’s swearing in, she wore a mid-length black coat made by a Palestinian-Lebanese designer (Cynthia Merhej) and calf-high boots. Because people are nosey on the internet, people found out that the boots were $630 which started some controversy. Karoline Leavitt (I don’t know who’s taking fashion advice from her) made a comment of how New Yorkers have to give half of their income to the government and she gets to wear pricey boots. Because of this debacle, the stylist had to make it clear that the boots were a loan from a small fashion company. Duwaji has also recently faced some online criticism for not dressing modestly enough as a Muslim woman.
Duwaji is not the first nor will she be the last person in the political world to face criticism for the things she wears. A little over a decade ago, Barack Obama faced criticism for wearing a tan suit (you read that correctly) even though there have been previous presidents that have worn tan suits. Everything, including clothes are political but when you’re a minority, it’s even worse. People who lean more right are focused on the price of the boots while people who are more left leaning are focused on the coat made by a Palestinian-Lebanese designer. When you’re a politician’s wife who’s an advocate and an artist, you’re called “aloof.” When you’re a politician’s wife who complains about decorating for a Christmas party, you get a documentary.
Prioritizing your work and maintaining privacy does not make you aloof! Not everyone should or have to share tons of personal things online. There’s nothing wrong with sharing personal things online to an extent. Not sharing doesn’t make you icy or cold. For some people, being a mysterious girl works for them and it’s definitely working for Rama Duwaji.
If you want to look more into Rama Duwaji’s work, she has a lot on her instagram but there is also some stuff on her personal website:
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Rama Duwaji Drops by New York Fashion Week, Sitting Front Row at Diotima