Also on the topic of my last post, I find the term “Fat fetish” to be really fucking stupid.
I think it’s like calling people who like tall people “tall fetishists”
This is a thought that I’ve had ever since I really sat down and thought about it and I thought it was just me until I asked my partner.
Like, realizing I preferred chubby men, and was allowed to not find very muscular men attractive was such a huge stepping stone to me being able to get out of the horrible rut I was in about my body. And now I actually feel really good about my body most days.
So it feels really, really weird to see people condemn others for that.
Being so Fr a lot of the things you should “Never say to plus sized people” are things that you honestly just shouldn’t say to a stranger at all??
Like “You look like you’d give amazing hugs!” Sounds like a poor attempt at flirting to me.
I can’t remember exactly what they were (I remembered them before I started writing this rip) but there were a few others that honestly I wouldn’t mind hearing from my partner, but would be weird ASF coming from a stranger.
And then there’s shit like “I’m glad the comments are so nice.” & “You’re so brave!” Which are absolutely just backhanded compliments.
I love being chubby, I love chubby people, all shapes and sizes- chunky, fat, thick, plump, plus sized, mid sized, pick your adjective.. I LOVE TUMMY I love ROLLS I love CHUBBY ARMS!! DO NOT LET THEM GET YOU!! EVER!!!!!!!!! Thank you goodnight

The ecomeny sucks facism is on the raise and you can’t even join the circus for being a big beautiful women anymore