ohhh this is so interesting actually. i haven’t even thought about this. but i also cannot remember a single time she’d said it either LOL
i think it’s very interesting to compare this with huddy, where cuddy’s telling house she loves him immediately, and repeatedly. where she makes a little fuss over him not saying it back. like… just on a surface level, compare that!!!
i think about this conversation between wilson and cuddy in Teamwork a lot when it comes to this sort of thing:
Wilson: What do you see in Lucas anyway?
Cuddy: I don’t see that it’s any of your business.
[…]
Cuddy: I’m living my life. And for the first time I’m not gonna change that because of how it might affect him… or you.
not only does cuddy not declare her love to lucas on screen, but she doesn’t really make a case for liking him at all. she deflects like crazy.
i’ve probably said this a million times, so forgive me if i sound like a broken record here, but this (the not saying i love you thing) definitely adds credibility to the whole “cuddy doesn’t really love lucas” thing. the fact that she views getting with lucas as more of an accomplishment, a statement, a claim of her ability to get over house, to have a “normal” relationship, rather than it being something she is pursuing because she truly loves him.
maybe cuddy likes lucas. maybe she is attracted to him. i’ve never tried to claim otherwise. but to say that she loves him feels like a stretch if even she can’t say it!!!









