I understand they were TRYING to be nice, but the way it read, was insulting.

First of all, the way they said it seemed like they were insulting my current writing and character rewriting ability.

This WHOLE fucking blog is writing, for the most part. I have written for years, leveled up my skills, and for someone to say I hope this makes your creative writing process even better?

Yes, a compliment, yes, trying to help, but still irritating because it comes across as “I dont think you write very well, nor do you know all the facts I know, you need help, you sweet summer child.”

SECOND of all, if they truly meant it in a nice way, they wouldve done it off of anon., thats how I see it. I have a feeling they knew it might come across as a little mean, so they went anon, as most people who call me slurs in my inbox (counting up to 9th time TODAY), do.

THIRD of all, I answered that when I was 15. Or I dont know , switched? Im still getting screened for DID, they’re all different people, and that one’s the asshole/persecutior. 15 and full of rage. My bad, I think the 15 year old shouldn’t answer asks anymore, I dont want to have this blog come off as mean or not a safe space.

Also im lit AuDHD and have a hard time figuring out the tone of things, even with tone tags, I dont know if people are being actually genuine.

No, they’re not blocked, no, I dont hate them, and no, if they ask something again, im not gonna snap at them, as long as they remember that; Your words matter. The vocabulary you use matters. The emoticons you use matters.

And this goes for everyone.

Try to say things in a way you yourself would not be upset with. If you even THINK it could be read or taken the wrong way, please, rewrite or reword it a bit.

@jackielovesej(<- nickname is bug) , @sylvasystem , @alexhatezu , @crufflebird , @magpiemagstuff (Mags)(or maggot) , @cobweb-strange (<- spider) , @gioxox , @cannedravi0lii <- that is Ravi) , @pinknaijia <- poptart

At some point some of you really need to start branding some things as exclusively yours in a way before someone starts doing it for you

ghar aake so jaungi gng, abhi panic, phir exam hall mei crash out, phir bahar nikal ke doston ke saath rant

Y’know, it’s finally dawned on me after years and years of being an artist, that since I’m aphantasic and can’t picture things in my mind, that when I try to make art purely from my mind with no references, it will always come out bad

Just wanted to say a big thank you for all the support on my photography pages lately 👌. Everyone has been so supportive it’s incredible 😊. On this video is also a little life update. Hopefully there will be some very spectacular photography coming your way soon! 😃

human alastor is gonna be the end of me send post

Don’t Sign That LOI Until You Read This

So, you’ve built your business from the ground up, hustled like a dog, and now someone finally wants to buy it. Congrats! But wait,

The Letter of Intent just dropped in your inbox. Looks clean, numbers seem hot, and your M&amp;A advisor is practically doing cartwheels. Your gut says sign it, right? Wrong. Don’t jump the gun just yet.

I’ve seen too many founders get caught up in the excitement and sign LOIs without even letting their financial advisor, like me, Douglas Greenberg, take a look. And believe me, it usually ends badly. We’re talking potential losses in the millions or even jeopardizing your retirement dreams. Not cool.

What You’re Actually Signing

Let’s get real here. An LOI isn’t just a formality. It’s the beginning of a high-stakes game that can change your life. You might feel like you’re just agreeing to terms, but you’re actually setting the stage for negotiations that follow.

Think of it this way: an LOI is like a first date. It might look good on paper, but if you don’t know who you’re really dealing with, it could blow up in your face later. One misstep can lead to major headaches.

For instance, if the LOI includes vague language about price adjustments based on future earnings, also known as earn-outs, you could find yourself in a nasty situation down the line if the buyer decides to nickel and dime you.

Your Team Matters

What do I mean by team? I’m talking about your wealth manager, tax attorney, corporate attorney, and estate planning advisor. You want them in the room when you’re reviewing that LOI. Their expertise is worth its weight in gold.

At Pinnacle Wealth Advisory, we guide business owners through the chaos. We analyze the fine print so you can have peace of mind while you’re making some of the biggest financial decisions of your life.

And let’s face it, you’re not just signing an LOI; you’re basically giving someone a key that unlocks your entire financial future. You wouldn’t hand over your house key to a stranger, would you?

Data Speaks Volumes

According to a recent survey, 40% of business owners regret the terms negotiated in their LOIs. That’s a staggering number. It clearly shows how critical it is to take a step back and think it through.

Exit planning is your friend here. It’s not just about selling; it’s about knowing how to maximize your wealth in the long run. More often than not, a little patience and planning can make all the difference.

So, give yourself that extra time to consult your advisors. It could be the difference between a sweet exit and a financial nightmare.

And hey, if you want some more insights, check out my articles on HubPages or connect with me on LinkedIn to see what I’m chatting about in the financial world.

Bottom line: Don’t let excitement cloud your judgment. Consult your team before you put pen to paper. You’ve worked too hard to risk it for a hasty decision.

Cheers!

im going to attempt to make chocolate pancakes

drew my friend a sona of this dawg cause it reminded me of her

i just started watching vanderpump rules for the first time and it feels like playing episode when you have zero gems

throwback to that time when i was a small child and knew i loved cinnamon sugar but did not realize that cinnamon and cinnamon sugar were two different things so i just put a massive spoon into a container of cinnamon and put the whole thing in my mouth like i was doing the cinnamon challenge (which had existed for a while at this time but i was not on youtube to know about it)

i was expecting joy and happiness but let me tell you, that shit was miserable, i basically trojan horsed myself

I’m convinced I’m built otherwise because IF a bi girl WERE to feel guilt / shame about their sexuality, they qould feel guilt or shame about liking a girl but I literally feel shit every time I like a man??? Like every time I like one / have a crush on one, I suppress it?? What is this 😭😭 why can’t I just be freely bisexual 😭😭

something special

We should respect Peter…..

So was it ever explained in canon why Whitley never liked Weiss or…

Why do people think Harry Styles came out on SNL last night… REOPEN THE SCHOOLS. LEARN YOUR HISTORY.

3 books I’m looking forward to reading when they come out this spring

Good morning😶‍🌫️

I’ve noticed that many people think Margarita the drink came before the name, but i fear it’s common sense that it didn’t

i think actually we should extend the idea of dldr to everything. like. you don’t have to read something if you really hate the main character. or if you hate the writing style. don’t hate-read stuff if you don’t have to my man you’re not doing anything but wasting your time suffering through something you don’t want to read.