Sansa is ceo of poor taste in men my god
I believe in modern medicine but bold of u to assume i take advantage of it (i dont own cold medicine and i have a cold)
i’ve been touring stateside kissing my swedish boy over face time who knew opening up would make me a headline BOOTS that’s my ego boost schedule ain’t been loose for a minute yeah i’m that girl i’ve been it

kids these days don’t know what it felt like to be bisexual and wear a stupid as fuck hawaiian shirt in 2017
girl who is against the concept of having sex primarily because it would require additional laundry after
imagine waking up and seeing two idiot looking kids playing with your severed leg, new nightmare unlocked.
the idea that women are “more allowed” to express emotions than men under patriarchy honestly seems like a lie that serves patriarchy itself.
women are constantly pressured to dissociate from the way our circumstances negatively impact us, and we are straight up not permitted more emotional expression in any meaningful way that is received well in patriarchal relations. in reality, we are marked as “more emotional” and therefore taken less seriously than men.
nobody under patriarchy is allowed a healthy and full expression of their emotions, but framing emotional expression as an advantage that women have is bizarre.
i think a lot of people internalized the misogynistic idea that “men are rational and women are emotional” and just went “that’s true… but it’s a good thing!” instead of saying “that’s obviously bullshit and we shouldn’t perpetuate this belief in any form”
you know, the more i think about it, the angrier i get about how mainstream media and even people in general treated marie kondo when the life changing magic of tidying up got big. it’s just so unnecessary and sad to me and i think the vast majority of people would love what she has to say if they just actually looked into it instead of maliciously memeing her to death? i’m not talking about the cutesy does it spark joy stuff but all the things portraying her as some bizarre evil cleaning dictator.
i actually read her book when i was about twelve years old, in the most shocking and probably only example of me ever being ahead of a trend, and even at twelve i really loved everything she said. at that point in time i lived in fear of my mother’s threats that she would come and throw everything away while i was school, and my small and very adhd mind simply could not grasp the concept of “have less stuff”. have less of WHICH stuff? how? i’d never actually been taught how to clean my room besides being told “pick up stuff” and “be organized”, and as she points out multiple times, cleaning is not an intuitive thing. it’s a learned behavior and skill.
anyways. her entire philosophy centers on surrounding yourself with things that you love, and only things that you love (or things that you absolutely need). she explicitly says over and over again that it is not about throwing things away, it is not about minimalism, it is not about “what is the smallest amount possible that you can survive on”. she literally has a whole section where she talks about how hard it can be to throw things away when you’ve lived in poverty all your life and you don’t have absolute confidence that you can replace something that you really needed if it gets thrown out, even though you’re not likely to ever really need it–you’ve just been conditioned to think that because that’s literally how you survive, when you’re poor. she talks about how that mindset can serve and how it can damage. she talks about how minimalism is sort of a rich people thing, cause they can afford to throw everything away.
this woman really came out here and said “i want you to be surrounded by things you love and i’m going to validate your fears and your difficulties in getting to that place” and people somehow got mad at her. i don’t understand it
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#i always think about how beautiful it was for ryan coogler to cast buddy guy as older sammie #i often think about how people like to espouse the idea that we are “so far removed” from jim crow and segregation when creatives like buddy are still alive #a lot of the activists and figures are still alive! #idk the fact that he’s living proof of the continued effects of chattel slavery on black americans is so bittersweet because he remembers such atrocities but he’s also able to bestow wisdom and history for art pieces like sinners
Ryan Coogler said in an interview, btw, that part of why he thought of Buddy Guy was because his uncle loved seeing him – he’d get dressed up and go see him play live when he got the chance.
I go on Tumblr, I feel basic. I go out into the real world and people look at me like I fell out of a ufo
I want to write more in 2026. And there’s only one way I can do it—by writing the most self-indulgent garbage you have ever seen.
If i hear another man complain about dating apps, I will start killing. i haven’t been putting in 90% of the effort for years for you to say women are too passive and never respond
the problem with personality tests and other similar quizzes is that they assume you know things about yourself. Which is simply not true
ladies… ladies… theres enough of me to go around… cut me into little pieces… rip me into bloody chunks… its ok… i dont mind…
quick question bc im curious