“INTJs just want to control people!”
Kinda.
But not in the way you are saying.
We take in a lot of information, we can’t turn it off, and one of the main reasons for that is to solve problems.
We want to mitigate damage, misfortune, and disaster as much as possible, and an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. So, whether you like it or not, and whether we like you or not, we will tell you what to do. At times we can bullrush you into doing what we say. It is not malice, it is care. Or at least one of the ways we show we care. If we didn’t, and it wouldn’t blow back on us, then we’d just sail off and let you drown.
We are trying to help you before you need more drastic help.




